After a lengthy phone conversation, I ordered wine to be made, pinot grigio as that's what my fiancée likes. I didn't hide my gayness on the phone. Anyways, they "forgot" to make it. We purchased someone's unwanted wine as a substitute (it was 2 weeks before the wedding, what was I to do?) even still I told them they could advertise on the labels, we wanted to support as many small local businesses as possible. She refused very succinctly by saying, "if we put our name on the bottles it would be like saying we approve(of gay marriage). And we don't."