Gary Gerber was extremely damaging to my spouse’s and my relationship. He uses outdated methodologies like dream analysis and gender role stereotypes. In a private session with my spouse, he told my spouse to “run” (as in leave our relationship). He did not provide any guidance as to how to fix our marriage. We left his care and went to a marriage workshop called “Marriage Helper.” This workshop showed us in three days what was wrong and how to fix it. Three years later, our marriage is better than it ever was. Do not go to Gary Gerber if you actually want to save your relationship.